Your privacy
Last updated 29 October 2026
Co-Parent holds some of the most personal things you can share: your children's birth details and what's happening in your family in hard moments. I take that seriously. Here's exactly what happens to it, in plain words.
Co-Parent is a supportive companion, not a professional service. It doesn't replace a doctor, psychologist, counsellor or any other professional, and it can get things wrong. If anyone is in danger, call 111. If you need to talk to someone, you can call or text 1737 any time, free.
What I keep
- Your name, email and password. Your password is scrambled so that no one, including me, can read it.
- The birth details you enter for yourself and your children (date, time and place), and the Human Design chart made from them.
- Your conversations, so Co-Parent can remember what you've talked about.
- Any "This helped" or "Not quite" feedback you give on a reply.
Who else is involved
- Anthropic makes Claude, the AI that writes Co-Parent's replies. Your messages and your family's charts are sent to Claude to write each reply. Anthropic doesn't use them to train its AI.
- Bodygraph calculates the Human Design charts. It only receives a date, time and timezone, never names.
- Render is the service that runs Co-Parent and stores its data securely.
- OpenStreetMap services turn the place of birth you type into a timezone and suggest towns as you type.
Nothing is ever sold or used for advertising.
What I can see
I don't read your conversations. As the person running Co-Parent, I can see who has joined and how often Co-Parent is used.
The one exception: if you tap "This helped" or "Not quite" on a reply, I can see that reply and the message you sent just before it, plus anything you write about what was missing. That's how I learn what's working and make Co-Parent better. If you'd rather keep a conversation completely private, just don't tap those.
If you ask me to look into a problem with your account, I'll only look at what's needed to fix it.
Changing or deleting things
- You can delete any single conversation under Earlier conversations.
- You can correct anyone's birth details, or remove a child and all their conversations, at any time under Family.
- You can delete your whole account under Family → Delete my account. Everything is deleted straight away. Backup copies are cleared automatically within about a week.
- Under New Zealand's Privacy Act 2020, you can ask what information I hold about you and ask me to correct it. Just ask me.
Questions
You're one of the first people using Co-Parent, so you can message me directly about anything here.